How Much Do You Spend on Clothes?

Oh gawd, I just went back through my Learnvest My Money Center account and tallied up how much I spent from May 2012-May 2013.  I did this because this May it has been one full year since I moved back South from New York City, and I wanted to see how I’d been spending since my location, job, and everything else has changed.

I did this cute little project back when I first started my blog. Some of you who have been reading from the beginning (all 2 of you…ha ha!) may have seen it already. Have a look at it, but don’t laugh at my plumpness or the bad writing, because it was only my fourth post. When I first moved, I accidentally sent my boxes of winter clothes home instead of my summer clothes and had to go shopping again for a few things to wear during the six weeks it took to ship the rest of my things across the country. I bought ten items of clothing (and some shoes..and scarfs…and jewelry) and was really happy with a smaller wardrobe, and I promise that is the honest truth. 

My original ten items of happiness, that I all still have in my closet!

My original ten items of happiness, that I all still have in my closet!

How Much Do You Spend On Clothes? Well…too much.

I did really well in every category last year, even despite my 40% pay cut and higher rent from living alone. Well, every category except one. I spent $3500.00 on clothes just last year, and that doesn’t even count the monstrous spending spree I went on last April to make myself feel better after I quit my job.  In some small way I shopped because I thought, “well, I may not have a job anytime soon and may not get any new clothes.” But woah. I was wrong.

How did having only ten pieces of clothing evolved into spending nearly 7% of my yearly income? I mean I do have a few explanations:

1) Saving exhaustion- from not having spent hardly anything on clothes in 2011-2012, even though I needed them. Once I had extra money to spend in the form of my massive severance package from my last employer…I went hog wild because I’d deprived myself.

2) Despite the dollar amount, my closet is still the same size season-to-season, because I’ve been throwing out clothes from my college days and investing in items of a better quality and therefore more expense. J. Crew is my new best frenemy.

3) I have lost fifteen pounds this year, which isn’t a lot to some people, but it’s a huge deal to me. Especially on a 5’3 frame, it makes a noticeable difference especially in the way my clothes fit and make me feel. I’ve had to replace some things because they were too big, or have them tailored to fit.

Even though these are valid reasons excuses…$3500.00 is exactly the amount of the closing costs on my new house. Or a the price of a  down payment on the car I’m desperately going to need within the next few months. Desperate times call for desperate measures. Extremely desperate measures that make me so super sad don’t even believe that I’ll be able to make it. So to hold myself accountable I’m going to speak these horrible, horrible words out loud.

I’m not buying any new clothes for six months.

And I’m only doing six months because I honestly don’t believe I can do the whole year, but I’m willing to try it out for six. I mean, seriously, why set myself up for failure? I’m doing it, because I know it’ll be good for me, but there really aren’t words to describe the near climax I reach when the J. Crew catalog comes in the mail. TMI? Sorry, I just wanted to illustrate how difficult this is going to be for me.

Le sigh. It’s going to be a loooooooong six months. Long. So Long. I can buy underwear and yoga pants, right?

Have you ever done a clothing fast? If not, what would you do with an extra $3500.00?

 

I Hate to be a Bitch But…..

I recently took on some SEO/Copywriting freelance. Originally,  this guy told me the job paid $20 an hour. I told him I didn’t work hourly and that I charged a per page rate of $30 per page for SEO/copy, no matter how many words of copy actually went on the page. This is how I prefer to work, since it evens out for me time-wise on the larger projects. He told me that was fine, that I could just bill hourly what I normally would have made per page.

I’ve never had a problem with anyone paying me before, and since this is a legitimate company, I didn’t insist upon a contract. (Rookie mistake.) Now, I’ve turned the work in, and not only have I not been paid, he’s been out of touch.

So I called the company and asked for the accounts payable department. I could feel the lump in my throat as I dreaded the potential confrontation. For a second I considered hanging up the phone should the guy I was avoiding jump on the phone, but then I thought, “My god, I’m an adult.” I should be able to ask for my due without acting like a complete puss about it. I have a healthy fear authority figures- I always have,(and it was made worse by the horrible, toxic relationship I had with an old boss)  Still, I could feel the chains of the fear he engrained in me break free as I gathered up my courage, kept it curt, and polite and said I hadn’t heard from him and wanted to follow up. When could I expect money for my work?

The receptionist took my message and within MINUTES, the guy I was working for email me, taking my paypal information and saying he’d let me know on Friday when I could expect the payment, although he didn’t want to use me anymore.

Uhm, fine. You’re shady anyway. We aren’t talking about $100 for a sponsored link. This was for a significant chunk of my time, and upwards of $400 worth of copy writing work. I hate to be a bitch but, give me my DAMN money!

You can probably guess that Friday came in went with no word-so, still no resolution. I may give one more phone call in the next few days, but other than that I suppose I’m just supposed to chalk this up to  a very expensive life lesson: don’t do any work without a contract or a deposit up front. 

 


GUEST POST: Being Careful with Loans

As a parent, family life can often bring many unexpected surprises into your life. More often than not, these cost money; something that the average family has little to spare. When dealing with necessary expenses, it can be all too easy to look into loans.

Of course, this is never something you should consider lightly. When this becomes something you’re heavily considering, having additional advice is always important and the experts at Loans Advice.net can help. This includes all the various aspects of a loan, such as the scale of the loan, the speed of the repayments and, ultimately, deciding whether or not such a course of action is the best choice for you, your family and your finances right now.

 Small Scale

The first thing you should bear in mind is the scale of the payments being dealt with. We all know about large loans that come with collateral and long repayment plans; here we are discussing the opposite.

Short scale loans are often quick loans designed to be turned around and repaid by the next pay-day. By keeping the amount borrowed to a minimum, the ability to repay is easier. Needless to say, this presents less risk; the less you borrow the less trouble you’re risking when you factor in repayments and interest.

Likewise, the quick speed of repayment means this is arguably easier to factor in. If you borrow $100, for instance, you need only pay that back (with slight interest). This is easier to budget and take out of your next pay check rather than having to plan a long, regular repayment plan that can hamper down on any financial situation. As already stated, the average family rarely has such money to spare each month; paying your loan off as soon as possible allows you to return to your normal situation without being tied down to such repayments and debts.

Additional Support

Don’t forget that this is only a quick look at the potential and risks involved with loans. If you’re still unsure or just want more information to help you make your decision, you can find more advice elsewhere. Sites like Loansadvice.net offer plenty of advice and information about short loans.

It’s important to get your information from places such as these, unlike banks or other creditors, which may directly try to influence you with bias. Unbiased sources deal exclusively in facts and advice; something that is always welcome to those who want to make educated and informed decisions.


GUEST POST: The Big Ticket Item

Living responsibly with your money is hard. There’s no question. It’s hard to deny yourself fun stuff you want to buy, hard to put long-term plans ahead of short-term gains. Learning when to economize and when to go for the “real thing” is part of having a healthy relationship with your money.

Buying cheaper options often makes a lot of sense. What is the real difference between a plain white t-shirt from Old Navy or Target and one from Ralph Lauren, when either will turn yellow under the arms after a few months’ wear? What’s wrong with store-brand paper towels? We all work hard to live well—and save for the future. But living a stringently frugal life isn’t fun for everyone. Some items bring so much happiness to our lives that they’re worth spending a lot of money on.

Here’s one: your iPod. The largest capacity iPod now costs $249. With 160GB of hard drive space, it will hold up to 40,000 songs. (That’s approximately 3,636 albums, for those of us who still buy them.) If you take care of your iPod, it can last six years or more. But even if you only get five years out of it, the cost breaks down to less than fourteen cents a day. What else can bring you so much happiness for so little money? Even a decent cup of coffee is at least a couple of dollars a day.

A friend of mine wrote a poem about the happiness his iPod brings him:

The way I see it, if you long to splurge on something special, like a great new bike or a fantastic five-burner range—or a fat new iPod—and you know it will bring you this kind of joy for a long time to come, then you should indulge. After all, that’s why we work hard, right?

Jen Adams is a writer living in New York City. She is the author of The Books They Gave Me, published by Simon & Schuster, and is at work on a zombie novel for young adults.


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A Peek Inside My House

A Peek Inside My House

Le Bathroom

Le Bathroom

Hi Everyone. I’m on vacation with the family, but while I’m gone I thought you might like to take a little peek inside my apartment. Especially since I’ve been talking about buying a home, see what my rental looks like right now.

 

I didn’t even take a photo of the living or bedroom. It’s just too. messy. for words.

 

Happy Friday!

Where the "magic" happens, as they say.

Where the “magic” happens, as they say.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Another view of the office. Lots and lots of papers and attempts at storage.

Another view of the office. Lots and lots of papers and attempts at storage.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My kitchen, which I don't use. But I did put my fabulous 6 ft mirror in here because it wouldn't fit anywhere else.

My kitchen, which I don’t use. But I did put my fabulous 6 ft mirror in here because it wouldn’t fit anywhere else.


How Do You Measure a Year?: Year One Blog-versary

How Do You Measure a Year?: Year One Blog-versary

Sorry, I just couldn’t resist the RENT reference. In case you missed this post last week, today is my one year blog-versary. Woo! I don’t think I’ve ever done anything consistently for a year (imagine how SKINNY I’d be ;) ) so this is kindof a big day for me. I had this grand idea to make a video blog, but alas, that never came to be. (Sidebar: Why am I so busy all the time? I enjoy it, but it’s also driving me crazy.) I can’t believe it’s already been a YEAR since the day I started blogging. Honestly, sometimes I never thought I’d get here, and I wouldn’t have without awesome readers and followers like you.

My very first comment!!

My very first comment!!

 

L Bee and the Moneytree By the Numbers

Numbers wise-here is how you’d measure L Bee and the Money Tree in a Year (note: all numbers are based from August since that is when I made the switch from WordPress to Self-hosted, but I think reader data from May-August is negligible.
-37,000 Unique visitors

-67,000 pageviews

-3,404 comments

-1603 Twitter Followers (thanks in part to this GIVEAWAY, which you must enter!)

-663 Facebook Likes

-An average time on site of 2:50- This is statistic is probably the one I am most excited about, because on average, those of you who read “Moneytree” pick up your feet and stay awhile. Which means I must be doing something right.

-6 Giveaways

-3 Video Blogs

These are the two most read posts over the past year:

Broken Heart, Broken Wallet Part 1

Money and Sex

Here are a few of the things that have happened to me since I started blogging:

-I moved from New York City, back home to Alabama.

-I got an awesome job as a copywriter, based on the work I was doing on this site. You can read more about that here.

-I have won three “Top 25 Personal Finance Blog” awards, which you can see proudly displayed in the sidebar and footer. I also got my first press mention via GoBankingRates.com. I was also a nominee for THE top personal finance blog of 2012 by my peers in this contest, which I didn’t win, but it was awesome to be nominated with all the folks I admire. For the record, I came in 12th.

- I have given three financial talks, hopefully leading into more opportunities as a speaker.

- I became a staff writer at One Smart Dollar and Ready for Zero.

-I turned this blog into a sweet little side hustle starting last October. I average between 500-800 dollars each month.

-This was my very first post. You can tell by reading it that I have become a much better writer since then. Practice makes perfect!

-On a personal note, I am also 15 pounds lighter than I was at this time last year. HOOTY. F*****. HOO

-I am also in the process of buying my first home, which wouldn’t have been possible if I didn’t practice what I preach. This blog has kept me uber-accountable.

 All in All…

It was an amazing first year, and this blog grew by such leaps and bounds even I never even thought possible. It certainly wasn’t my end goal to have a successful blog that people come back to on a regular basis. I just wanted to work on my writing skills and talk about something important to me: finance for young women.

What’s next? Onward and upward. There is still the book to finish, and I’d like to take “Moneytree” into the media a bit more. I’ll be attending the financial bloggers conference this Fall, which I am super excited about, and am looking to start my second blog-The Starter Home Diaries- based on my adventures in homeownership. I wish I had more details on that for you, but if things work out with the bank and I close on this house, I will be looking to launch sometime in July.

I could write more  (pages and pages!) about the overwhelming amount of gratitude I’m feeling today, but I feel like I’ve covered that topic at length. Many may wonder, “What is the BFD? It’s just a blog.”, and in reality it is. To me, however, it was the tool I used to transform my life. I was an out of work actor, who was leaving that career behind and looking at the next forty years as being someone’s assistant, unless I went back to school or got married. I began to write for fun, and now I get to be a writer every day for a living. It’s awesome.

I firmly believe everyone should blog. The power of writing every day is immeasurable, why do you think so many people do it? A friend at the office was curious about my blog and he asked, “Is it hard?” Yes, it is very,very hard-especially to do it consistently and consistently well. Still, looking back over the last year, all of the hard work has definitely been worth it.


An Interview with the Founder of SavedPlus

An Interview with the Founder of SavedPlus

L Bee says: Hi everyone! I’m excited today to present the interview I recently had with Paul Sorokin, the founder of the new savings app SavedPlus. Read on for more of his insights behind the application and how it can help you reach your savings goals.

Paul Sorokin is the current president and founder of SavedPlus, a financial tool that helps people from all economic backgrounds save money and meet financial goals. Paul came to the United States from Russia in 1989 after graduating from Moscow University with a BSEE degree. Over the years Paul had worked in various industries, always finding ingenious ways to make process and product improvements a reality. His boundless entrepreneurship, creativity, leadership and vision were the cornerstones and inspiration for creating SavedPlus Inc.

Paul Sorokin

L Bee: Tell me a little bit about your app and why it is different from other budgeting/money/saving apps out there.

Paul: SavedPlus differs from other budgeting, money and savings apps because our application is designed on patented platform that allows us to piggy-back user defined transactions on top of merchant transactions. This means SavedPlus’ mechanism allows users to specify a percentage ranging from 5-20% that can be automatically added to their merchant transactions, and can then be transferred automatically from their checking account to their savings account. Of course, there are several checks in place to assure that only specifically designated transactions result in savings.

L Bee: What is the philosophy behind your app?

Paul: All applications on the market involve deliberate and purposeful entries that are easy to start, but hard to do regularly. This is where most people fail… It takes discipline, it takes time, and it takes extra effort to save money successfully and SavedPlus does this by making the process automated and easy. Our application is specifically made to be set once, and then it will continue operating automatically until you reach your goal or cancel it. SavedPlus is also bank independent, meaning that you don’t have to open any new bank accounts to be able to benefit from it, you can simply use the one you have now.

L Bee: Where did you get the idea?

Paul: The idea was born back in 2001 after the dot com crash. Many people lost a lot of money and were back to square one with their investments and/or savings. Those who lost life-long savings were afraid to invest and many did not even have any money left to invest. So how do you start again? That’s when I thought about automatic micro-savings that would work similar to sales tax, but the money would go to your savings account from every purchase you make automatically in small, hardly noticeable amounts. The problem however was that there was no technology at the time to support and implement this idea.

L Bee: How did it all begin?

Paul: Over the past three years, I looked into ways to begin this new venture – meeting with people, investors, attorneys etc. It all changed when I met Nikita, a co-founder and our current CEO. Coincidentally,  he was also looking into similar business opportunity and SavedPlus was born.

L Bee: What has the process of developing an app been like? Any road bumps?

Paul: Our third partner, Stan, has a very unique set of skills that allowed him to quickly assemble developer’s team, and all three of us where spending days and nights discussing the application’s prototype. There were many road bumps on the way – implementing legal requirements, separating “must haves” from “nice to haves,” assuring maximum security – all of that with simple, straight forward, easy-to-follow interface.

L Bee: Any success stories from users?

Paul: Quite a few – it is remarkable to see how many of us fail to see “the forest behind the trees”. Here is some of the feedback we received from our users: “…I would’ve never thought that I can save this much money on my savings account and I didn’t even notice when or how it happened… Amazing!”, “…Well, I have to admit that I was skeptical at the beginning. Now that I have been using the application for a little over than 3 months, I can see that it really does work and I am really impressed – I wish I had this years ago!”

L Bee: How has this app personally helped you with your savings goals?

Paul: I have been using the application for over four months – testing it with various settings. I actually never had a savings account because I didn’t think I needed one. Now that I have it, I can see my weekly contributions to it with advanced stats on when I will achieve my savings goal, and how much will I have in 3, 5 or 10 years at my current rate of savings. It really makes me want to contribute even more money to my savings by increasing my savings percentage. Seeing it grow is encouraging me to continue to save money rather than spending it.

L Bee: What do you hope happens for the app in the future? Will there be other versions?

Paul: Our goal is to show people that saving money on your savings account can be easy and fun. It’s important that we all have a savings account with some funds in it; you can save money for the sake of saving, or you can save to spend, to donate or pay off debts. In future versions we plan to streamline some of the goals. For example, you will be able to save and pay your credit card bill/debt directly, or save money for IRAs or other investment accounts to maximize profits. There are many ideas – and as before – our team will go through a rigorous process of deciding the next “must haves,” and I am sure great ideas and new improvements will come out of it.

 

A new TV-Want or Need?

A new TV-Want or Need?

Well actually, I would have to argue that yes…. yes I do NEED a TV.  But first, let me explain a little bit about my predicament.  I have a little baby of a TV-32 inches, bought on sale from the Best Buy at Lincoln Center in NYC for only $200. I was paying off my credit cards at the time, and $200 was a lot. So I actually SAVED UP to buy this television, which is the first (possibly, only?) time I have ever done that.

A year and a half later, after three big moves, poor TV is tired. She still works, but sometimes crackles and blacks out for a minute or two. She’s not very reliable, which makes me sad. I’m glad I only spent $200 on a TV that I’ve thrown here there and everywhere, but at the same time, I can’t help but wonder if you get what you pay for when it comes to electronics.

So my TV is crapping out, I just paid an ungodly amount to have my car fixed, and I’m buying a house (but more on that next week..) Suffice to say, a new television just isn’t in the budget right now, even though I really think a working TV is more of a “need” than a “want” for me.

Hear me out: I think a television would be a great investment since watching my favorite shows at night is the primary way I unwind after a hard day at work. Television is my primary source of entertainment, as my boyfriend and I spend countless hours watching our favorite shows together. We don’t pay for cable, but having a bigger screen to watch shows via the internet is nice, and since I get use of it everyday, I consider a TV as something I need, even though I know better. You NEED some form of entertainment, right? Why shouldn’t it be a television?

Lucky for you…you don’t have to make the choice between wants and needs, as I am participating in a MEGA giveaway of this beautiful 50 inch, 1080p Samsung TV. I’m not eligible to enter (Super sad face!), but you are…so check out the rafflecopter widget below. It is available to anyone, anywhere, but we only pay $50 for shipping.

From Amazon.com!

From Amazon.com!

 

How am I constantly able to bring these amazeballs giveaways to readers and fans? By teaming up with Quotemeaprice.com, an awesome site where you can sell settlements, and by partnering with other awesome, successful bloggers. It’s just our way of saying “thank you.”

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Financial Fail of the Week: I love me some sweet, bottled water.

Financial Fail of the Week: I love me some sweet, bottled water.

I know, I know. This is one of the most taboo things to talk about among pf bloggers and environmentally conscious people alike.  I get that there are plastic water bottles filling up landfills, that bottled water is one of the biggest money wastes ever, and that I could be both saving money and saving the environment if I could just get my act together and drink from a reusable bottle.

I know all of this, and yet I don’t. I don’t have so many bad habits anymore, but I know this is what most people would consider the worst. But I don’t see it that way.

 

 

 

boycott-the-bottle

 

 

I hate the way reusable bottles taste, and hate the way they feel against my mouth and teeth. I feel like such a little kid, especially if the “mouth” of the water bottle is wider than my own, and I always spill on myself and look like an idiot. I have a Brita pitcher for my kitchen, but it takes forever to filter and barely fits in my apartment-sized sink. And tap water in ATL is downright nasty, so there is no way I’m drinking the stuff without a filter.

Why does anyone drink bottled water? For the convenience of course, the grab and go nature of it. I always recycle the bottles, but for this week my dirty little bottled water habit is my financial fail.

 

What is your financial fail of the week?


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